: Making the partner feel responsible for the abuser's happiness or stability.
: Modern critiques often point out that what used to be seen as a "romantic trait" in older media is actually a "bántalmazó tulajdonság" (abusive trait) when viewed through a psychological lens today. Psychological Perspective
In a psychological context, "romantically abusive traits" refer to behaviors like:
: Framing "wanting you all to myself" as romance rather than a red flag.
: Overwhelming someone with affection to gain control.
: Reviewers often critique stories where controlling behavior, extreme jealousy, or emotional volatility are presented as proof of how much a character cares.